Staying Connected While Living the Military Life
In the military, home is wherever the Armed Forces send you. Our family alone has lived in eight countries and many U.S. states. Because of this constant movement, staying in touch with loved ones can become expensive and stressful.
Mailing letters is no longer cheap. Still, nothing beats receiving a care package from home. Even though visiting the post office takes time and money, a flat-rate box filled with familiar treats can lift spirits in a big way.
Using the Internet to Stay in Touch
Email is free, fast, and easy. Along with digital photos and smartphones, it has changed how people maintain relationships. Today, the internet offers many low-cost ways to stay connected.
Social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, forums, blogs, and messaging apps help families share daily moments. However, not every situation feels right for an email or post. Messages like condolences or congratulations often need a more personal touch. A blog post can’t replace a heartfelt conversation or a warm hug from mom.
Phone Calls and Video Chats Across the World
For families living overseas, the phone remains essential. Deployed soldiers and service members rely on calls to stay connected with spouses, children, parents, and friends. Some bases also offer video calls, which help families feel closer.
Calling cards are a great option. Many organizations, such as the USO, banks, and insurance companies, offer free calling cards to service members. Adding one to a care package is always helpful.
Voice-over-IP services also reduce costs. Options include Vonage, MagicJack, and Skype. These services allow low-cost or free calls and often include video chatting.
Traveling Smart to Visit Loved Ones
Traveling to see family can quickly drain your budget. Military families often plan visits around relocations to save money.
Driving is usually cheaper than flying, especially if you plan stops along the way. Road trips also create lasting memories. If flying is necessary, compare ticket prices online to find the best deal.
Another option is to invite family to visit you instead. For larger families, this is often much cheaper. When visiting, stay with relatives to avoid hotel costs. Try not to eat out every day. Home-cooked meals, picnics, local attractions, and backyard barbecues help save money and create quality time together.
Connection Doesn’t Have to Be Expensive
Staying connected doesn’t have to cost much. Look for new and free ways to communicate whenever possible. Make your connections personal and meaningful.
Love costs nothing, but it means everything. Whether you are far from home or waiting for someone to return, those moments of connection truly matter.
